Day 17... What Role Do You Play?

It is so interesting to me how we all approach situations and scenarios differently. What works for one of us... may not work for others. And we all give advice from our own opinions of how things should be. We all think we are right... that our way is the only way. Well that is partly true... we are all right in our own way :) It’s just that there is no one right way… everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and opinions about their life.

That is one of my favorite things about the law of attraction. No judgment of good or bad, right or wrong... just cause and effect. What makes things right or wrong is the judgment that we place on them. The way we approach situations causes us to attract vibrationally matching effects. No good... no bad... just things and scenarios that match the vibration of what we are offering.

So cool to know!

In my new environment with the kids, I find myself playing the role of referee between brother and sister. This morning it occurred to me that I don't need to do that. That’s an old pattern of the peacemaker in me that wants to make sure everyone is being treated fairly. That pattern was created a very long time ago and now I understand that everyone is treated fairly. That you are always treated in a way that is a vibrational equivalent to how you are feeling.

For example, if the role you are playing makes you feel like a victim then you will always attract people who will treat you like a victim. Or in my case, if the role I play is that of a peacemaker, I will continually attract situations in which there needs to be peace made. If the role you play is a problem solver, then you will continually attract problems to solve. Or if your role is one of an appreciator, then you will attract and find more things to appreciate.

So I can focus on what I want (a peaceful, fun environment) because focusing on the problem does not serve me, it just prolongs it and attracts more arguing to me. From now on, I plan on letting the kids sort out their sibling relationship on their own. Sounds kind of simple I know... but I don't think I've ever considered leaving judgment and fair play out of the dynamics.

Another layer being peeled away... I love it!

Remember… everyone is entitled to their own version of life... so my question to you is: are there any relationships in your life that could benefit from you removing your judgment from it?